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Discussion in 'Sunderland' started by Teessidemackem, Jul 2, 2017.

  1. Teessidemackem

    Teessidemackem Well-Known Member

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    Since my last cringeworthy drunken thread.

    I often bottle things up throughout life push them to the back of my mind and pretend its not there. Unfortunatly alcohol releases my inner thoughts and if im in a bad place then im not a nice person to be around. I like to think and ive been told im a happy go lucky guy but i have a self destruction button that i cant control when i press it. This place is often a release.
    As most on here that know me know im in the middle of a divorce with 2 beautiful twin boys stuck in the middle so lifes not been good.

    My reason for posting this thread and if i sound like im gloating then i dont give a feck. Youve all seen me at my worst so here i am at my best. Ive met the woman of my dreams finally. At 29 years old shes 10 years younger than me but ive never met a lass that makes me laugh like she does along with other things i wont say. Ive got my own house, 2 gorgeous boys and a half decent car so ive finally realised lifes pretty good afterall. Thankyou so much for those on here that were there for me through my hard times. You know who you are xxxx
     
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  2. Brian Storm

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    :emoticon-0159-music840 little hours:emoticon-0159-music


    Seriously. Glad life is back on track. Can't go wrong with lady who makes you laugh. When you fancy them too you know you've stumbled on something which could be good. I've met to women who have that one was a modle/burlesque dancer who could have been a stand up comedian too. She was a ****ing headcase though. And although we were a formidable force when out together, two headcases together just caused too much hassle to ever work. The other is my lady, and although she has her own problem she handles it different, in a way that doesn't stack pressure on the relationship as a hole, I don't become the enemy so we can work on her problems without unnecessary projection. She's sexy pretty and hilarious so I'm well happy.

    Chuffed for you mate, go for it :). Bet you've cut down **** loads on the drink have you?
     
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    Teessidemackem Well-Known Member

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    Your one of the lads i was referring to when i said whod been there for me. I mean it when i say your a top bloke mate. Ill look forward for our next meeting.

    Yes im back at the gym now mate and feeling great. Depression just drains the energy and life out of you.
     
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    well done hope its all plain sailing now
     
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    Hope so mate. Thanks hope lifes being kind to you aswell.
     
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    Teessidemackem Well-Known Member

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    Can i also add that i lost one of tbe greatest men anyone can meet in February aswell. Aka my Grandad and role model. Its fair to say i had a shyte start to 2017.
     
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    Brilliant mate!! So pleased for you.....best wishes to you for the future.

    Just look at the self destruct button in the same way as Sunderland Football Club....<whistle>

    Haway the lads!!
     
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    You know I think the world of you fella. Always there if you need me. You've got my number. I try not to get too involved as I know imposing is often something depressives can't deal with. But morning, afternoon or night just get in touch. Not that you'll need to at the moment. Ride the crest of that wave mate. Can't beat the start of something good. Electric. :)
     
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    I'm out me ****ing nut
     
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    Out ya nut as in off your nut? What you on?
     
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    Sniff. Loads of it.

    ****ing sick of funerals mate.
     
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    I've just read what this thread is about. Pleased you've turned it around Tees
     
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    Watch you don't 'Winston' your nose fella.
     
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    Tel (they/them) Sucky’s Bailiff

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    Good man, I'm very happy for you bro.
     
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    Best of luck Tees.
    Hope it all go's well for you.
     
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    Excellent news mate, really happy you got your **** together.
     
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    Well done, Tees.

    If Bad things come in threes, you've definitely had your lot this year.

    Good on ya for turning it round, and enjoy the good times ahead.
     
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    Great news. You've found that elusive corner and turned it. Keep that pendulum swaying to the thoughts of the good things you have, and embrace the fantastic life that's awaiting you. Best wishes mate.
     
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    Good for you Tees. Glad all the support helped. Coming through the dark days in a positive way will make you a stronger and better person. And like me with my wonderful twin girls your twin boys will be your strength in the years to come. Onward and upwards
     
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    Bloody hell Tees man, when I read the title I thought you'd been sentenced <laugh>
     
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