Nice one, thanks. First four paragraphs â nothing much to disagree with, unfortunately, although I donât think I necessarily know off the top of my head who James McClean is or what his story is about, sorry. (Iâll do a Google Highway dot com search after Iâve finished responding here, so youâre excused the task of explaining.) I liked the (extensive) quote from the Theodore Dalrymple book, leading up to: "Sentimentality then becomes coercive, that is to say manipulative in a threatening way." Exactly. The (public) stiff upper lip may be something of a self-bolstering British national myth, true, but this by no means lessens its desirability as an aspiration (according to me). Iâm glad the other book isnât a self-help book, though â that was the fear (and how I despair of these things and, I suppose, to a lesser extent, the people who buy them) â and that it doesnât appear to waste time telling people how to be âhappyâ (whatever that may actually mean). Good. I (presently) feel something similar on both counts, although this in itself would tend to militate against my buying the book (why read something I know I already agree with, after all?), but itâs certainly a tempter. We need a war. Also, whilst donning my specifically British hat and at the risk of repeating something I already once said elsewhere on this site: not a piddling and divisive war like the Iraq stramash, either, but a great big âoh good grief, Mummy, the Germans are in the gardenâ sort of war; something around which we may usefully cohere and remind ourselves of all that it means to be British. Or simply human. Sieg Heil. Which, I reckon, is simply a long-winded and favourably immoral way of saying that an awful lot of British people appear to worry about the most terrible ****e these days; working themselves towards a self-pitying (and often greed-based) frenzy whilst remaining untroubled by any sense of perspective. Itâs lamentable, debasing, humiliating. (And weâre all guilty of it at some point.) â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦â¦.. Thatâs interesting about the Aborigines. I donât know anything about such things, but the discovery of a genetic predisposition towards alcoholism would hardly surprise me. Going on instinct (and very limited reading) alone, I feel that this seems at least possible. Anyway, I tend to shy away from viewing alcoholism as solely a moral weakness, as this feels a little too close to the black and white thinking of Scientologists, say, or the irretrievably religious or unforgiving. (Or my mum, come to think of it.)