Cheers man. We were never living together, if we'd got married we would've moved in together. She had a kid from another marriage that failed as well so that was a factor. I don't have kids. I'm just going to do what she asked and leave it, I'm not desperate, I'm quite happy doing my own thing. If she gets back to me positively I'll probably just see if she wants a coffee
I've got a softie side when I need to. I'll probably have to ban someone later today though, to paper over those weak cracks I just showed
I know what's it like, I used to get banned from my club main forum all the time, until I got a perm ban eventually
Like all women she thought the same thing...I’ll wrap him around my finger...once he’s head over heels I’ll start to manipulate him with my demands and needs called ****s for a reason mate and that reason is that it is the only useful bit on them Is she out? Bag her clothes and dash them onto the footpath
Weigh her in, she sounds like a right head worker, and it’s all way too complicated. Move the **** on bro.
Mate genuinely I think you've both gone into this relationship with your heart ruling your head. I think you probably both went in with good intentions but were naive and that suggests you're either young or inexperienced in mixed faith relationships or both. You've let emotion drive you before considering the reality of what compromises each of you would be willing to make to make this work. And I'm talking about how much she's willing to give up of her religious dogma and how much you're willing to take on. She clearly isn't willing to make enough of those compromises and that doesn't make her a bad person - just someone who didn't look far enough ahead and is now struggling to come to terms with the realities of it all. I bet her immediate and wider family around her are her biggest obstacle? It takes a lot of balls to overcome that, and she would have to believe she's not betraying her faith before she could find that courage anyway. And from the impression you're giving, at this stage in her life she's not there. In all honesty mate you both need to move on. It's not the religious divide that's the issue here but the inability on each of your part, especially her situation to look beyond that. And if you persist with it you'll both end up miserable. Find someone who makes you genuinely happy, same for her too. There's plenty out there.
I'm investing a bit of time in helping Lfcpower. There's a few unhappy livpl fans on here since they won the league. First Sucky, then Astro, now LP. It seems to have been a poisoned chalice.
It seems to be a thing mate. They seem more arsed about people not being arsed than being happy that they’ve got the monkey off their backs.
@lfcpower you live in Liverpool? (Pretty rare for Liverpool fans to actually be there so I have to ask) If so head down to popworld and get yourself a new girl. Full of young clung ready for action that place
Sometimes relationships just don’t work and it’s no ones fault, in this case it seems like this girl wanted LP to change a lot of things, but doesn’t seem to be giving up on much. maybe it’s best to move on, at least there is no kids or property involved so make a clean start with someone who will make you happy.